God in happiness (ਖੁਸ਼ੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਪਰਮਾਤਮਾ) - ਮੇਰੇ ਵਿਚਾਰ (ਅਤੇ ਸਿਰਫ ਵਿਚਾਰ)

ਹਰ ਪਾਸੇ ਜਿਵੇਂ ਹਾਸੇ ਅਤੇ ਕਿਲਕਾਰੀਆਂ ਦਾ ਮਾਹੋਲ ਬਣਿਆ ਰਹਿੰਦਾ ਹੈ। ਹਰ ਪਲ ਜਿਵੇਂ ਪੂਰਾ ਅਸਤਿਤਵ ਮਖੋਲ ਦੇ ਮੂਡ ਵਿੱਚ ਹਸਾ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੋਵੇ। ਬਾਈਕ ਤੇ ਜਾਂਦਿਆਂ ਜਿਵੇਂ ਇੱਕ ਦਮ ਈ ਕੋਈ ਅੱਗੇ ਆ ਜਾਵੇ, ਫਿਰ ਕੁਦਰਤ ਮਖੋਲ ਕਰਦੀ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਕਿੱਧਰ ਧਿਆਨ ਬੱਚੇ ਤੇਰਾ।

ਮਜਾਕ ਕਰਦਿਆਂ ਹੀ ਜੀਵਨ ਕੱਢ ਕੇ ਦੇਖੋ ਇੱਕ-2 ਮਹੀਨੇ, ਦੇਖੋ ਕੀ ਗੁਜ਼ਰਦਾ ਹੈ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਉੱਤੇ। ਕਿੰਨਾ ਆਨੰਦ ਕਿ ਸਾਲੀ ਇਹ ਜਿੰਦਗੀ ਤਾਂ ਫਿਰ ਵੀ ਚੱਲ ਹੀ ਰਹੀ ਹੈ, ਕਿ ਇਹ ਸਾਰਾ ਸੰਸਾਰ ਭੱਜਾ ਈ ਫਿਰਦਾ ਹੈ, ਬਿਨਾਂ ਕਿਸੇ ਟਾਰਗੇਟ ਦੇ। 

ਵਾਕਿਆ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਜਹਾਜ ਵਿੱਚ ਬੈਠੇ ਲੋਕ ਇੱਕ ਦਮ ਪਾਇਲਟ ਦੀ ਅਨਾਉਂਸਮੈਂਟ ਸੁਣਦੇ ਹਨ ਕਿ “ਸਾਡੇ ਜਹਾਜ ਦਾ ਰੇਡਾਰ ਖਰਾਬ ਹੋ ਗਿਆ ਹੈ, ਸਾਨੂੰ ਪਤਾ ਨਹੀਂ ਲੱਗ ਰਿਹਾ ਕਿ ਅਸੀਂ ਕਿੱਧਰ ਜਾ ਰਹੇ ਹਾਂ, ਪਰ ਘਬਰਾਉਣ ਦੀ ਲੋੜ ਨਹੀਂ, ਅਸੀਂ ਜਿੱਧਰ ਵੀ ਜਾ ਰਹੇ ਹਾਂ, ਬੜੀ ਕੁਸ਼ਲਤਾ ਨਾਲ ਜਾ ਰਹੇ ਹਾਂ।”

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ਤੁਸੀਂ ਬੱਚਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਕੀ ਦਿੰਦੇ ਹੋ, ਧਿਆਨ ਦਿਓ (What you give to the children, meditate on them)

ਕਈ ਲੋਕਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਆਦਤ ਹੁੰਦੀ ਹੈ ਹਮੇਸ਼ਾਂ ਦੂਸਰਿਆਂ ਦੀ ਜਿੰਦਗੀ ਵਿੱਚ ਦਖਲਅੰਦਾਜੀ ਦੇਣ ਦੀ ਅਤੇ ਕਈਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਆਦਤ ਹੁੰਦੀ ਹੈ ਦੂਸਰਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਆਪਣੇ ਵੱਲ ਧਿਆਨ ਦਵਾਉਣ ਦੀ। ਇਹ ਸਹੀ ਹੈ ਜਾਂ ਗਲਤ, ਇਸ ਬਾਰੇ ਗੱਲ ਕਰਨੀ ਵੀ ਨਹੀਂ ਬਣਦੀ ਪਰ ਇਹੀ ਕਿ ਇਹ ਚੀਜਾਂ, ਇਹ ਸੁਭਾਅ, ਇਹ ਵਿਵਹਾਰ ਮੋਜੂਦ ਹੈ ਮਨੁੱਖਤਾ ਵਿੱਚ।

ਅਸੀਂ ਕਈ ਵਾਰ ਆਪ ਖੁੱਦ ਬੇਧਿਆਨੇ ਅਜਿਹੀਆਂ ਗੱਲਾਂ ਕਰ ਦਿੰਦੇ ਹਾਂ ਕਿ ਬਾਅਦ ਵਿੱਚ ਅਧਿਐਨ 'ਤੇ ਪਤਾ ਲੱਗਦਾ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਜੇ ਇਸ ਤਰਾਂ ਨਾ ਵੀ ਕੀਤਾ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਤਾਂ ਵੀ ਕੋਈ ਫਰਕ ਨਹੀਂ ਸੀ ਪੈਣਾ। ਉਦਾਹਰਨ ਲਈ, ਘਰਦੇ ਕਈ ਵਾਰ (ਵਾਰ-ਵਾਰ) ਇੱਕੋ ਗੱਲ ਬੱਚਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਕਹਿੰਦੇ ਚਲੇ ਜਾਂਦੇ ਹਨ, (ਆਪਣਾ ਅਨੁਭਵ) ਪਰ ਬੱਚੇ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਦੀ ਗੱਲ ਮੰਨਣਾ ਤਾਂ ਦੂਰ, ਗੱਲ ਨੂੰ ਇਸ ਤਰਾਂ ਨਜ਼ਰਅੰਦਾਜ ਕਰ ਦਿੰਦੇ ਹਨ ਜਿਵੇਂ ਕੋਈ ਹੈ ਈ ਨਹੀਂ।

ਇਸ ਵਿੱਚ ਵਾਕਿਈ ਬੱਚੇ ਦਾ ਕਸੂਰ ਕੱਢਿਆ ਜਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ, ਪਰ ਅਸੀਂ ਕਦੇ ਇਹ ਧਿਆਨ ਨਹੀਂ ਦਿੰਦੇ, ਜਾਂ ਦੇਣਾ ਨਹੀਂ ਚਾਹੁੰਦੇ (ਕਿਉਂਕਿ ਮਾਪੇ ਕਦੇ ਗਲਤ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੁੰਦੇ, ਕਦੇ-ਕਦੇ ਵੀ ਨਹੀਂ) ਕਿ Zen ਸਿੱਖਿਆਵਾਂ ਤੋਂ ਇਲਾਵਾ, ਤਾੜੀ ਇੱਕ ਹੱਥ ਨਾਲ ਨਹੀਂ ਵੱਜਦੀ। ਬੱਚੇ ਦਾ ਅਜਿਹਾ ਵਿਵਹਾਰ ਕੋਈ ਇੱਕ ਦਿਨ ਦਾ ਖੇਡ ਨਹੀਂ, ਇਹ ਉਸਦੀ ਇੰਨੇ ਸਾਲਾਂ ਦੀ ਜੀਵਨਸ਼ੈਲੀ ਦਾ ਨਤੀਜਾ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ। ਜਿਸ ਵਿੱਚ ਮਾਪਿਆਂ ਦਾ ਸੱਭ ਤੋਂ ਵੱਡਾ ਹੱਥ ਹੁੰਦਾ ਹੈ, ਜੋ ਵਿਵਹਾਰ ਅਸੀਂ ਬੱਚਿਆਂ ਸਾਹਮਣੇ ਕਰਦੇ ਹਾਂ, ਉਹ ਉਸੇ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਧਾਰਨ ਕਰ ਲੈਂਦਾ ਹੈ।

ਜਿਵੇਂ, ਇੱਕ ਵਾਰ ਆਪਣੇ ਰਿਸ਼ਤੇਦਾਰਾਂ ਦੇ ਗਿਆ, ਉੱਥੇ ਬੱਚਾ ਇੱਕ ਬਾਂਹ ਸਿੱਧੀ ਕਰਕੇ, ਬਿਨਾਂ ਲਹਿਰਾਏ, ਸਿਰਫ ਦੂਸਰੀ ਬਾਂਹ ਨੂੰ ਲਹਿਰਾਉਂਦੇ ਹੋਏ ਤੁਰ ਰਿਹਾ ਸੀ। ਅਜੀਬ ਲੱਗਣ 'ਤੇ ਦੇਖਿਆ ਕਿ ਉਸਦੇ ਦਾਦਾ ਜੀ ਨੂੰ ਕੋਈ ਸਰੀਰਿਕ ਦਿੱਕਤ ਸੀ, ਜਿਸ ਕਰਕੇ, ਤੁਰਨ ਲੱਗੇ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਦੀ ਇੱਕ ਬਾਂਹ ਨਹੀਂ ਸੀ ਹਿੱਲਦੀ। ਹੁਣ ਬੱਚਾਂ ਇੰਨੀ ਛੋਟੀ ਗੱਲ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਧਾਰਨ ਕਰ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ ਤਾਂ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਬੋਲਣ ਦੇ ਤਰੀਕੇ, ਵਿਵਹਾਰ, ਕਿਸੇ ਨੂੰ ਜਵਾਬ ਦੇਣ ਦੇ ਢੰਗ, ਆਦਤਾਂ ਆਦਿ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਕਾਪੀ ਕਰ ਲਵੇਗਾ।

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ਕੀ ਹੈ ਅਤੇ ਕੀ ਹੋ ਸਕਦਾ ਹੈ? (What is and what can be - in Punjabi)

ਸੱਤ ਸ੍ਰੀ ਅਕਾਲ ਸਾਰਿਆਂ ਨੂੰ ਜੀ,

ਮੈਂ ਇਹ ਪੋਸਟ ਆਪਣੇ ਪੰਜਾਬੀ ਮਿੱਤਰਾਂ (ਉਮਰ ਇੱਕ ਪਾਸੇ ਕਰਕੇ) ਲਈ ਪਾ ਰਿਹਾ ਹਾਂ, ਜਿਸ ਵਿੱਚ ਮੇਰੇ ਆਪਣੇ ਵਿਅਕਤੀਗਤ ਵਿਚਾਰ ਆਪ ਜੀ ਅੱਗੇ ਪੇਸ਼ ਹਨ।

ਅਸੀਂ ਆਪਣੇ ਜੀਵਨ ਵਿੱਚ ਹਰ ਪਾਸੇ ਦੋੜ ਰਹੇ ਹਾਂ, ਹਰ ਪਾਸੇ ਰੋਲਾ ਪਿਆ ਹੋਇਆ ਹੈ, ਇਹ ਕਰਨਾ ਹੈ ਉਹ ਕਰਨਾ ਹੈ, ਇਸ ਸੋਚਿਆ ਹੈ, ਉਹ ਸੋਚਿਆ ਹੈ, ਇਹ ਹੋਣਾ ਚਾਹੀਦਾ ਹੈ, ਉਹ ਹੋਣਾ ਚਾਹੀਦਾ ਹੈ। ਜਿਸ ਦੀ ਕਦਰ ਕਰਨੀ ਵੀ ਚਾਹੀਦੀ ਹੈ, ਅਸੀਂ ਸਾਰੇ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਵਿੱਚ ਇੰਨੇ ਵਿਲੱਖਣ ਹਾਂ ਕਿ ਹਰ ਇੱਕ ਦੀ ਵਿਚਾਰਧਾਰਾ, ਜੀਵਨ ਸ਼ੈਲੀ, ਬੋਲਣ, ਸੋਚਣ, ਸੁਣਨ, ਮਹਿਸੂਸ ਕਰਨ ਇੱਥੋਂ ਤੱਕ ਕਿ ਸਾਹ ਲੈਣ ਦਾ ਤਰੀਕਾ ਤੱਕ ਵੱਖਰਾ ਹੈ।

ਇਹ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਪ ਵਿੱਚ ਇੱਕ ਚਮਤਕਾਰ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਅਸੀਂ ਹਜ਼ਾਰਾਂ ਤਰੀਕਿਆਂ ਨਾਲ ਅਲੱਗ ਹੋ ਕੇ ਵੀ ਇੱਕੋ ਗ੍ਰਹਿ ਉੱਤੇ ਠੀਕ-ਠਾਕ ਤਰੀਕੇ ਨਾਲ ਰਹਿਣ ਦੀ ਕੋਸ਼ਿਸ਼ ਕਰ ਰਹੇ ਹਾਂ, ਜੱਦ ਕਿ ਸਾਡੇ ਦਿਮਾਗ ਵਿੱਚ ਤਾਂ ਸਾਨੂੰ ਆਪਣੀ ਇੱਕ ਰਿਆਸਤ ਮਿਲ ਜਾਣੀ ਚਾਹੀਦੀ ਹੈ। ਮੈਂ ਇਸ ਸੱਭ ਨੂੰ ਜਾਣਦਿਆਂ ਹੋਇਆਂ ਸੱਭ ਜੀਵਾਂ ਦੀ ਵਿਲੱਖਣਤਾ ਦੀ ਕਦਰ ਕਰਦਾ ਹਾਂ।

ਅੱਜ ਦੇ ਵਿਗਿਆਨਿਕ ਅਤੇ ਟੈਕਨਾਲੇਜੀ ਦੇ ਯੁੱਗ ਵਿੱਚ ਅਸੀਂ ਸੱਭ ਕੁੱਝ ਹਾਸਿਲ ਕਰਨ ਦੇ ਕਾਬਿਲ ਬਣ ਚੁੱਕੇ ਹਾਂ। ਹੁਣ ਜਿਵੇਂ ਕਿਹਾ ਜਾਂਦਾ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਸਿਰਫ ਜਾਣਕਾਰੀ ਦਾ ਯੁੱਗ ਹੈ, ਨਾ ਹੀ ਜਮੀਨ ਦਾ, ਨਾ ਕਬੀਲਿਆਂ ਦਾ, ਨਾ ਉਦਯੋਗੀਕਰਨ ਦਾ, (ਮੇਰੀ ਪੰਜਾਬੀ ਨੂੰ ਮਾਫ ਕਰਨਾ), ਸਿਰਫ ਜਾਣਕਾਰੀ ਦਾ ਹੋਣਾ, ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਉਪਯੋਗ ਕਰਨਾ ਹੀ ਕਾਫੀ ਬਣ ਚੁੱਕਾ ਹੈ, ਆਪਣੇ ਅਤੇ ਆਪਣੇ ਆਲੇ-ਦੁਆਲੇ ਨੂੰ ਖੁੱਸ਼ਹਾਲ ਕਰਨ ਲਈ। ਜੋ ਮੇਰੇ ਨਾਲ ਸਹਿਮਤ ਹਨ, ਮੈਂ ਉਹਨਾਂ ਲਈ ਸ਼ੁਕਰਗੁਜ਼ਾਰ ਹਾਂ, ਜੋ ਹਾਲੇ ਸਹਿਮਤ ਨਹੀਂ ਹਨ, ਭੱਵਿਖ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਇਸ ਜਵਾਬ ਲਈ ਇੰਤਜਾਰ ਕਰ ਰਿਹਾ ਹੈ। ਬੱਸ ਜਰੂਰਤ ਹੈ ਥੋੜਾ ਕਿ (ਸਿਰਫ ਥੋੜਾ ਜਿਹਾ)  ਧਿਆਨ ਦੇਣ ਦੀ।

ਹਰ ਇੱਕ ਚੀਜ਼ ਜੋ ਵੀ ਇਸ ਗ੍ਰਹਿ ਉੱਤੇ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਲਈ ਉਪਲਬਧ ਹੈ, ਉਸ ਨੂੰ ਹਰ ਕੋਈ ਉਪਯੋਗ ਕਰਦਾ ਹੈ ਕਿਸੇ ਨਾ ਕਿਸੇ ਤਰੀਕੇ ਆਪਣੇ ਮੰਤਵਾਂ ਨੂੰ ਪੂਰਾ ਕਰਨ ਲਈ। ਮੰਤਵ, ਚੰਗੇ ਮਾੜੇ, ਉੱਪਰ ਨੀਚੇ, ਇੱਧਰ ਉੱਧਰ, ਇਸ ਸੱਭ ਦਾ ਬਹੁਤਾ ਮੁੱਲ ਨਹੀਂ ਹੈ ਕੁਦਰਤ ਲਈ, ਕਿਉਂ ਜੋ ਸੱਭ ਕੁੱਝ ਇੱਥੇ ਹੀ ਹੈ, ਕੁੱਝ ਵੀ ਇਸ ਗ੍ਰਹਿ ਤੋਂ ਬਾਹਰ ਨਹੀਂ ਜਾਂਦਾ (ਗੱਲ ਕਰਨ ਲਈ ਗੱਲ ਕੀਤੀ ਹੈ)।

ਕਈ ਲੋਕ ਇਸ ਸੱਭ ਦਾ ਬਹੁਤ ਆਕਰਸ਼ਿਕ ਅਤੇ ਚਮਤਕਾਰੀ ਉਪਯੋਗ ਕਰਦੇ ਹਨ, ਜੋ ਕਿ ਕਈ ਵਾਰ ਤਾਂ ਯੁੱਗਾਂ ਯੁੱਗਾਂ ਤੱਕ ਚੱਲਦਾ ਹੈ, ਇਸ ਸੱਭ ਦੀਆਂ ਕਈ ਉਧਾਹਰਨਾਂ ਤੁਹਾਡੇ ਸਾਹਮਣੇ ਹਨ, (ਥੋੜਾ ਧਿਆਨ ਦੇਓ ਅਤੇ ਉਧਾਹਰਨਾਂ ਲੱਭੋ)। ਅਧਿਐਨ ਕਰਨ ਉੱਤੇ ਪਤਾ ਚੱਲਦਾ ਹੈ, ਕੁੱਝ ਅਜਿਹੇ ਲੋਕ, ਜੋ ਵਾਕਿਈ ਆਪਣੇ ਕਿੱਤੇ, ਹੁਨਰ, ਗਿਆਨ ਆਦਿ ਵਿੱਚ ਮਾਹਰ ਸਨ ਜਾਂ ਹਨ, ਬਹੁਤ ਹੀ ਵਿਲੱਖਣ ਅਤੇ ਕਮਾਲ ਕਰ ਦੇਣ ਦੇ ਤਰੀਕੇ ਨਾਲ ਕੁਦਰਤ ਦੁਆਰਾ ਦਿੱਤੇ ਸ੍ਰੋਤਾਂ ਦਾ ਇਸਤੇਮਾਲ ਕਰ ਜਾਂਦੇ ਹਨ।

ਹੁਣ ਗੱਲ ਤੁਹਾਡੀ ਇੱਕਲੇ ਦੀ ਹੈ, ਕੀ ਤੁਸੀਂ ਵੀ ਇਸ ਸੱਭ ਦਾ ਇਸਤੇਮਾਲ ਕੁੱਝ ਸਕਾਰਾਤਮਿਕ ਨਤੀਜੇ ਪੈਦਾ ਕਰਨ ਲਈ ਕਰ ਰਹੇ ਹੋ, ਜਾਂ ਨਹੀਂ? 

ਮੈਂ ਇਹ ਪੋਸਟ ਆਪਣੇ ਪੰਜਾਬੀ ਭਰਾਵਾਂ ਭੈਣਾਂ, ਜਿਸ ਕਿਸੇ ਨੂੰ ਵੀ ਪੰਜਾਬੀ ਸਮਝ ਆਉਂਦੀ ਹੋਵੇ, (ਯਾਨਿ ਧਰਮ ਨਿਰਪੱਖਤਾ ਨਾਲ) ਵਿਚਾਰ ਕਰਨ ਲਈ ਪਾਇਆ ਹੈ, ਉਮੀਦ ਹੈ ਕਿ ਕੁੱਝ ਸ਼ਬਦ ਚੰਗੇ ਮਾੜੇ ਤੁਹਾਨੂੰ ਪੜਣ ਵਿੱਚ ਮਜ਼ਾ ਆਇਆ ਹੋਵੇਗਾ, ਕਿਉਂਕਿ ਆਖਿਰ ਵਿੱਚ ਆਨੰਦ ਹੀ ਤਾਂ ਹੈ, ਜੋ ਅਸੀਂ ਚਾਹੁੰਦੇ ਹਾਂ। 

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#StenoStory 010 : Wife Cheated So Husband Divorced

If there is a breach of trust in the husband and wife, the life become fruitless, tense and the home become hell, as you come to know the real situation that some other person is making happy to your life partner and he/she is now not interested in your life, worries and family. The emotional harassment is the result of this breach as the victim become depressed for the acts of the accused.

Today, Smith (Fake Name) came with a tense face, look like a poor person, attire like that as he was robbed. He was thinking with the depressed manner as the loan of millions is on him.

Came to my lawyer, said that “My Wife is not faithful to me”.

Lawyer said “What happened?”

“She is talking to someone and having affair with a guy living in her parental Village.”

“How do you know?”

“He bragged it one my face.”.

I and the lawyer was disappointed as Smith talked to the person, who has affair with her wife and he know this about 4 year ago and still can’t do anything.

And now he is ready to file divorce and dissolve the marriage, as he is now unable to go with this anymore.

But, in India, divorce by husband is not so easy, as the known assumption is that the law in India is with wife. So, he has to file the divorce petition very carefully, as he shall face the fine of maintenance to her wife, even she is committing breach of trust.

Sure there are ways to dissolve their marriage without any other fines or maintenance paid to wife:-

1. Make a Divorce deed, on which the signatures of the wife be put that she is willing and ready to dissolve the marriage.

2. Collect proofs of her breach of trust like messages, phone calls, photographs, recordings etc.
3. A prior Compromise can be used against her, if she has committed and mentioned her affair, even after she is not continuing her affair.

In Smith’s case, my lawyer has created a divorce deed on which Smith will take her signatures.

So, let’s see what happens……

Section for Divorce: -------> http://indiankanoon.org/doc/1284729/
(If only one party want divorce)

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#StenoStory 009 : Trust & Money

World is full of Concocted and Shoddy persons, who for the sake of some Money or a part of Earth, can do any harm to nature and persons without thinking for a second.

The story is about a Holy place which was constructed by a members of a family for their personal religious activities, where they celebrate their Monthly and Annual festivals.

They have constructed a Park, A Temple and a Pool for their religion and relaxation which is about 200 years old now.

For care and maintenance, they have hired a Peon-Cum-Caretaker-cum-Priest for their place, 25 years ago.

People easily forgot that they are just servants and there is a legal and obligatory liability of them against their employers.

So that priest. He, without asking their employers, intentionally and malafidely, cut the trees, who are approximately 200 years old, which were plough by the forefathers of the employers, just to earn a penny. The emotional affection with the employers and the natural benefits of the trees are just the words, may be, for that Priest. So, he cut of the trees and sell the wood for money.

After that, when the Owners of the Place heard about that, they rushed to their Holy Place and asked him that for what, he did that? For which, the Priest made call to 40 of his gang mates to take them out. So, there was a physical violence leads to compliant against the Priest.

So, Priest is now out of his Job and the trust created in about 25 years, is went to Dustbin, for a Bunch of Rupees.

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#StenoStory 008 : Religion Or Dictatorship

I am very frustrated from the business of God and how the people get fooled by the acts of these sellers. If there is God, he will not be depended on these persons, who claimed to be the bridge between the God and the innocent people. How can a criminal become a way to meet the God?

The story is about a poor family, who are in danger and cannot save themselves because of one of these Shop. What is happening, is that they brought a house very back, with one problem is that in the open lobby of the house, there is an electricity pole by the electricity department.

With this they have lost their animals and are in danger for their life, as in the days of rain, it become more dangerous for the livelihood of human.

For this, they have made request to the electricity department to remove the pole and place it somewhere else, for which they have asked them to give some money (Which was a handsome) to let them work their duty for which they are already taking salary. The law of work here. If you want someone let them do their job, give them extra over their salary. otherwise, they will not do anything.

So, they gave them money and requested them to remove the pole from their house.

But like a light in the night, the neighboring Temple of a religion forced them not to remove the pole and let them die of shock. This is the rescue of a God's person, who spread the words of God to help others.

The reason is that the wires will be little shifted upon the Temple, which are already there, but they, with the help of innocent and dump people forced the electricity department not to remove the pole. 

In Image, the Red colored is marked as the present pole and the wires attached with it, and the blue colored object is the proposed pole and wire with it, every one can see the difference of the covered area by the present and proposed pole and wire, but the Dictatorship is winning and is do not let them live a more secure life.

This is the scenario of the these Temples and religions that they will not help a dying person or the people in danger, just to get a little extra money for their property.

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#StenoStory 007 : Marriage Vs. Dowry

In India, Dowry System is very much common and for some people is the only thing in Marriage. When we say marriage, for some dowry is the gifts from the parent for the betterment of her girl, in future. The articles may include Furniture, Vehicle, Utensils, Ornaments etc.

But, some take it seriously. They dreamed of the Gold, Diamond, Silver for their marriage with a Rich girl, throughout their life and when the dreams do not fulfill, people get furious.

This is want happened to the complainant within hours of her marriage.

If we say that she was married yesterday, today she was with her parents filing complaint against her husband. This is the situation of A Punjabi girl, for not giving dowry, as per the demands of the her husband. 

what happened is, the girl was married with every possible arrangement parents of girl can do, to marry her daughter with lights and sound. The husband, after the marriage function, took the girl with him. At night, the husband called the parents of the girl, while she was crying behind him, that "What you have teach her? Is she dumb and deaf?"

If any other man on Earth hear these slang, everyone will thought that he is talking about the Honeymoon Night between Husband & Wife.

A mother if hear these words, what she can say?

Her mother told that "Son, she is very childish in nature. She does not know anything about it." these words, a mother's words to her son-in-law regarding her daughter that she does not know any thing about honeymoon. Brevity and Presence of Mind.

But the story was different. What the husband wants to say that his wife do not know how to talk and obey her husband's every say, even that is illegal, impossible or full of greed. He wanted her wife to talk to her parents and ask them to give a CAR to the husband.

This is the real picture. The greediness of the husband for a metal-made car, which become superior than a lovely and beautiful wife. As the girl refused to say that to her parents, he gave merciless beating to her newly wedded wife, just after few hours from his marriage.

After which he left his wife with her parents and proclaimed that he did not want to marry her, and now that she is not allowed to come to my home.

Even After several requests at the same day, and after several Panchayats,   he have not taken her to her matrimonial home, to live like a wedded wife.

After which, she has filed a complaint against him for expenses and Divorce.

So what I Want to say is, our society is nothing but a greed covered with a smiley face. Hell with this type of Society.

Section for Divorce: -------> http://indiankanoon.org/doc/1284729/
(If only one party want divorce)

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#StenoStory 006 : Religion or Fraud?

In India, We believe in God, as a misconception that we have hired him and he can do every thing, and we will sit on the bed. But, The God is a mixture of GENERATOR + OPERATOR + DESTROYER. So, if he can build us he can finish us. We have not hired him, he made us.

In a Village in Punjab,  A Person purchased a land with the joining walls of the house of complainant, and started spreading the name of God, as he is doing some type of fake religious activities. Activities includes blowing air on the face of people, who comes to him.

What he do is, he open his Shop (Religious Temple or something) at 9:00 AM every morning, do some cheap tricks to indulge people in the acts, dumb people, who have less common sense about these type of frauds, come to him, he  blow warm air on them, take money for it and close his Shop (Religious Temple or something) at 5:00 PM every day.

Now, what these type of people do is, they with the curtain of Religion, take possession of others property, with intention to grab them.

So, does he. He encroached his first floor, on the complainant's house, and also he made a flag of his Shop against the gate of the complainant, against which the complainant has filed an Appeal of illegal possession against that fraud.

So, this way he is possessing the property of complainant illegally and forcibly. 

But, real question is that, Why the people supports him? Is he GOD or the GOD appoints him, to illegally possess the innocent's land?

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#StenoStory 005 : Who is Culprit now?

Many says DON'T LET PAST DETERMINE YOUR FUTURE, But sometimes you determine your past as present and future.

My friend's sister is married to her husband and now he is taking divorce from her, due to the past.

Story is a Love Story in nature but may not end as per the expectations.

So, it was found that she was in love with someone, before marriage and they were together for more than 7 years, a long time, even Scientists say that if a person managed to stay with another for 7 years, they are fit for the rest of the life.

But, future was making some another story. When her parents knew about her affair/relation with a guy, they rather than  talk to her, or meet the guy, they in hurry married her with some other one.

Even they were so angry that her daughter was happy with another guy, they made a false case against him and arrested with the help of their money and our police is also very popular to lure in the hands of rich persons, our law is just a ball in a plate, in which the wealthier roll the ball in his side.

So, the guy was in jail for 6 months, tortured and harassed for loving a person. After that he was released, but the life never ends, his parents left him, he is now living on rent. 

On the other side, when the girl after her marriage with another person, knew that his love is out from jail, she went to meet him, showing that the LOVE NEVER DIES.

Her Husband came to know the about the relationship after her marriage, as a responsible and nice person tried to convince her not to continue her relationship with her previous love, so that they can continue their life together. Everybody wants to live a peaceful life. The man who married with the girl is trying his best to maintain their marriage. He buy clothes, jewelry, take her to the trips, does every thing for which every married girl wants, but she is adamant to change her ways and she continue to meet her love. 

After that the the guy who married asked her parents to what to do in this case? Where they compelled her daughter to live with her husband, as she is not even let him touch her. But she is not listening to anyone.

So, at last her husband filed a divorce case after the 4 years of her marriage. 

My question is that, who is the Culprit Now?

Who is to blame?

The Girl, Her Love, Her Husband, Her Family?

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#StenoStory 004 : Love or Possession

The following case is real and being filed in court.

A Marriage dissolve in a brutal and dramatic way, here before the eyes of mine.

A lawyer came to me to type a longest reply before the Hon'ble Judge, for the case he was facing.

A Man married with her wife and everything was good and prosper. The marriage was solemnized with all the possible fulfilling requirement by the parents of the bride, as they were marrying her only child. They put their best and I would say every thing to make her marriage a celebration, A FESTIVAL.

So, the marriage solemnized and they were living together.

But, after the long time of 10 years, something happened.  THE LADY WAS KILLED.

AND THE KILLER WAS HER HUSBAND. 

Reason is that she can't become mother of a child.

She tried everything to be a loving mother, but the colors of God says a different thing.

So, for the reason of this, even she was not in default, she was beaten and harassed by her husband and her parents-in-law.

So, the firstly the question arises that who is to be blamed?

After the beating, she was asked to let her husband make a second marriage.


















No Girl on Earth would comply with this situation as to let her husband marry with another girl.


So, as she refused to let him do so, for which various compromises are being made by her parents and respectable. The Compromise, which is just a blunder of a two-faced person.

So, resultant to this, she was murdered by her husband, for not letting him do second marriage.

Now, this was one side of the case.

Another side is the lady was having property, which her parents gave her as present for her life.

As the legal way is that if the wife dies or accidentally killed or murdered, the husband of his legal heirs are entitled for her property.  So, he was beneficiary from both the sides.

But, I am feeling proud that there is a small clause, by which her succession is safe and is not transferred to her murderer husband.

But, no one replace the character of a person by anything, no property not even another person.

My question is that many adoption procedure and societies are present, then why killed a wife to marry another person? Just for a child? That child which we don't know how will treat us or may make our life suffer.


Read Section 25 of Hindu Succession Act ------> http://indiankanoon.org/doc/1944240/

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#StenoStory 003 : Beauty is a Curse

One Day, A Beautiful Girl came with her lawyer, they were discussing a matter of her situation.

When, the lawyer started telling me the story and I was typing, I felt Sympathy for that girl.

What happened is that the girl lives with her parents in their home in Punjab. She is very attractive and cute by her looks.

One day, the girl was all alone in her house and her Uncle (Real Brother of Her Father) aged about 58 to 60 years came to her house and started talking to her.

Worth mentioning here that the girl was wearing Capri-Type attire at that time and it is true that in here in Punjab, if a girl is wearing Shorts or even a Capri, it is assumed that the girl is expressive ad might be doubtful in character. THE BULLSHIT LEVEL OF OUR THINKING.

The girl thought him as a father as he was the real Uncle, even she make him feel that she is her daughter also.

After some talk, he said," Hey, Dear, please sit besides me."

And hold tight her hand. She was stunned and could thought of situation, what was happening to her.

She said to him that she is his daughter and what is he trying to say?

He said that he wants to take her on a long drive and that she is very beautiful and cute.

After, which she told him that she will scream and tell all others about this, so RUN AWAY.

On which his answer was " YOUR FATHER WILL NOT DO ANYTHING AGAINST ME AND WILL KILL YOU FOR HIS REPUTATION."

Our Culture, our ethics which we show to the world is nothing but a bundle of lies, as these types of people and the image created by her family made her helpless from all areas.


P.S. Girls please read this, in above situation:-

Section 354 of Indian Panel Code  ---> http://indiankanoon.org/doc/203036/

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#StenoStory 002 : Sexual Harassment by Husband

The Story is non-fiction.

A day or before a lady came to me with a lawyer to file a suit against her husband.

Situation was that the lady  is being physically and sexually harassed by her husband, as he without the consent of his wife, forcibly, make sexual relations, and even beat in the course.

The lady was so open-minded and informative, :D (No offenses) that she explained everything to her lawyer, even lawyer was saying that she is the most extrovert lady, he ever met. The facts and situations she explained, a normal lady cannot even pray to god.

That shows the harassment level of her husband, as she told about the use of medicines by her husband before using her as the slave.

Now, My Question is that how can a father or a mother can assure her daughter's life be prosper?

P.S.
Every Girl Shall need to read these sections for their goodness....

Section 354 of Indian Panel Code  ---> http://indiankanoon.org/doc/203036/

Section 376 of Indian Panel Code ----> http://indiankanoon.org/doc/1279834/

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#StenoStory 001 : Evil Vs. Good

The story is Non-fiction in nature, but can't reveal the real persons.

A lady residing in her home in the Punjab India, is being beaten and made half-dead by her IN-LAWS, for not letting them construct over the road to her house.

Actually, she is happily residing with her children as her husband is out of State, working and dying for his family. This was her fault.

So, after recovering from her state, she filed an F.I.R. against her IN-LAWS, and asked police help. 

But, Police officer after registering the F.I.R. of a lady, do not arrest the culprits because he wants money from the lady to arrest the defaulters. 

Why?

This is the nature of human.

As they compel the people in need, to give extra over their salary to work as they are supposed to do, in return to get their salary.

So, as the police officer guessed,  the lady gave him the money he wants. But, the WANTS OF HUMAN CAN NOT BE FULFILLED.

He is demanding more money and now the month is being passed as there is no action taken by the police. 

So, the lady filed an application against that police official, to return the money and arrest the culprits.

But, there is another side of human nature, which is pure, innocent and caring to others.

That lady while filing the application asked me in innocence "Will he be suspended?"

And the lawyer said "He will beg to you for his acts".

After these words, she told me that "Please create the application less offensive, less against that police officer. I don't want to make him suspend."

And this confused me, that a lady who is being beaten by her own family almost died, how she can care for the person she met first time in her life?

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